It always interests me what creatures of comfort human beings are and I have always been fascinated about how instinctively we like to sit in the same place, eat in the restaurants and keep the same daily rituals.
It is in the routine of doing ordinary things that we form a sense of belonging that perhaps makes us feel safe and any change can often be awkward, even at the best of times when we are happy and content.
This can feel worse when you are going from one disaster to the next. Everything seems to be going well and then suddenly the unexpected happens. Yet change can be good for us, even though it can also leave us filled with dread.
Having a routine can be great, especially for those who have experienced a life of chaos, living for many years without a routine. Routine is king if you are leading a very busy lifestyle with a hectic job and young children. But sometimes routine gets in the way, holds us hostage and stops us making vital changes that we need to move on!
Is routine holding you hostage?
I have worked with some very intelligent, capable individuals, experts in their field. Strong people who have overcome all kinds of hardships from surviving wars to overcoming addictions.
They all share experiences of intimidation by such negative experiences that have griped them. Yet it is remarkable that when you are faced with major changes, the overwhelming sense of fear, doubt and discouragement take over.
Holding onto any behaviour or relationship that is toxic is often never the right thing. The temptation to hold onto routines increase in times of difficulties, even if it is causing us harm, but the alternative appears to be a bigger struggle.
I spoke afew weeks ago about being in a season of acceleration and not intimidation. When we are about to make changes, start something new or transition from an old behaviour we start to question if we are capable or even if we are doing the right thing?
3 things to help you know when to give up or keep on going?
I almost always steer towards the optimistic side, a positive way of thinking and my cup is mostly half full. I think it is very normal or human to question things, not excluding doubt.
Allowing yourself to experience feelings of doubt can help you to become clear, if you don’t allow it to overwhelm you but help you to understand when to give up or keep going;
There are no guarantees in this life and sometimes the load is already too heavy. Hence, it may not be the time to make changes. However, if you are feeling stuck in a rut and know it’s time to change. Don’t give up, keep going!
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